My Sad News

[~Eiluna~]

It seems to be a hard month for many... I lost my father on the 6th of March.

He had not been well for some years, but this wasn't expected. I am thankful that I arrived at his bedside about 2 hours before he passed on. I was able to speak to him, hold his hand and kiss his cheek one last time. His transition was an easy one for him, I suppose... having been in and out of the hospital for some years, he refused all machines that could prolong his life. As he said to my stepmom, "I'm sick of being sick" I know now that he no longer has to feel sick....

I leave with this poem... one of my favorites for this time in the life cycle....

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.

--prayer of the Makah Indians
also attributed to Mary Frye

[erin]

Eiluna,

I am sorry to hear of your loss. It seems that this month is meant to tear at the heart leaving memories and certain pain...to be endured...to...with time...ease slowly.

I am glad though that you got to see your Father before he passed on. I'm sure; given the knowledge I bear about the warm person you are; that he was a very good man.

Take care of yourself,
I pray that all your family and his friends will find comfort in the legacy he gave you all;
memories forever precious....

Erin

[Cheialare]

I am sorry to hear of your news, Eiluna, I will include you in my prayers which are ever growing, my you find comfort in knowing you are in the thoughts and prayers of others, and may the past memories and future dreams keep your father alive in the hearts of all who loved him. *hugs if I may*

[Dream Loxley]

Dearest Eiluna

*hug ....... I shall wrap you up ohhhh so tightly and whisper softly as I wipe away your tears. He may be out of sight now.... but never out of mind......nor heart. It will get easier in time, that I promise you......... but for now, hold on to those cherised moments you spent together as they become even more treasured memories and smile because he lived.

He is at peace now.......... and always will he love you. *love

[Sinold Bragasson]

Eiluna,

HUUUGZ. I'll keep you in my prayers. To loose a parent is always one of the hardest things!

[Brennekah Windstrike]

I am so sorry for your loss Eiluna, I do know how you feel. Losing a parent is extremely difficult at any age. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time.

-leaves ya lots of hugs-

[Pensive]

Sorry to hear of yet more sad news.... ~hugs you softly with a skotc~..... will for certain keep you in my prayers, gentle lady

[~Eiluna~]

Thank you all for your kind words... they are much appreciated... *hugs warmly*

Though I'm not an official member here, it does feel like my vt family... and I am so appreciative of the deep and wonderful friendships I've been blessed with.

Thank you

*grouphug

[Alita Querida Rosario]

You have my deepest and most heartfelt condolances sweetie *hug*

[Friday]

Dear Eiluna,
I sorrow for your loss....'tis not an easy time...thank you, in your time of grief , for your words to Joe...take you care....

yours very truly
Friday